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Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
–Romans 12:15

Tuesday, the staff spent the afternoon praying through the prayer requests that were submitted this past weekend in each of the services.  I always look forward to this time.  I get to set aside everything else and spend the afternoon in prayer.  It can be overwhelming at times.  The needs within the body of Christ are great.  That said, I am always reminded that we serve a great God.  He is not unaware of the needs. 

Each time the staff prays; each time I pray, I find myself coming away with a different perspective.  God gives me a glimpse of His heart for His people.  My life experiences make me more sensitive to certain needs and maybe even desensitized to others.  God’s heart breaks when any of his children are in need and rejoices over every success no matter how big or small.

Being a part of the Body, a community, means that we are to “rejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn.”  I may have the title of minister, but each and every one of us has opportunity to minister each and every day.  Who will you rejoice with this week?  Who will you mourn with?  Who will you minister to in Christ’s name?

This week, we have two of our own who are mourning.  Christina Osborne’s mother died this morning.  Please remember Christina and Bob and Christina’s family in prayer in these days ahead.

Abundant Life

A thief comes to steal and kill and destroy, but I came to give life—life in all its fullness.  -John 10:10 (NCV)

This has long been a favorite verse of mine. Most translations use abundant life which is great. I discovered this one today and love it. It speaks of the life we have to look forward to, but I think it also speaks of the life we live now in Christ. It doesn’t say anything about life beginning when you get married, when you’ve been a church member for five years or when you have read the Bible through for the first time. In Christ we can have life in all its fullness.

I’ve known women who live their lives waiting to be married. I don’t discount the desire to be married, or even preparation. However, when you live life waiting to be married, you miss out on the life that God has for you NOW. You also end up putting that desire before God which is exactly what the thief would like to see happen.

One of the best pieces of advice I was given as a young single was from Margaret Becker. Maggie B, as she is known to fans, is a Christian singer/song writer and speaker. I had the privilege of hearing her speak to a group of young single women one time. She told us not to wait till we were married to do things we wanted to do in life like buy a house etc. Maggie B wanted to have children but she was not married. As she wrestled with God over it, she found that he provided children through her work with World Vision.

Living life rather than waiting is good advice wherever you may be in life. Do you have a desire to share the Gospel? You don’t have to be a missionary or go overseas to do so. Do you have a heart for ministry? You don’t have to wait until a certain age or even be a Seminary graduate to minister to people. God created each of us with unique passions and abilities and even life histories that work to accomplish His purpose for our lives. If God puts a desire in your heart to do something, pay attention. He will either provide opportunities or means to do that, or He may already have put things into place. There is certainly a time for waiting. However, even in times of waiting, when we live our lives in Christ, we can live it to the full. So what are you waiting for? Live life in all its fullness. Live it in Christ.

Boldly Praying

 Two things I ask of you, O LORD; do not refuse me before I die: Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, ‘Who is the LORD?’ Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonour the name of my God.  – Proverbs 30:7-9 (NIV)

 Dr. Brooks shared these verses with us during staff meeting this week.  He was reflecting on them after having seen a clip that Francis Chan posted to You Tube where he was reflecting on these verses.  They hit home so I wanted to share them with you.

Francis Chan’s reflection can be found here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2oi6y292kE).  If you don’t have access to You Tube, here’s the gist:

 The author asks just two things.  First, keep falsehood and lies far from him.  In this day and age where falsehood and lying have been redefined to allow for the latest loophole, this is a bold request. 

Second, he asks that God give him neither poverty nor riches, but only his daily bread.  This is an even bolder request.  In this society, we are taught to do everything possible to make more than we need so we can take care of ourselves in the future.  Certainly, this is not an unwise thing to do.  It does, however, make it very easy to fall into a trap of self reliance.  On the flip side, not having enough sends us into another set of temptations.

I have a friend who has been ministering and fulfilling her calling on a faith basis for years.  Every dollar that comes in to pay bills, and to travel the world doing what God has called her to do comes in from people who give.  She doesn’t go around fundraising for her ministry.  She prays and trusts God for his provision.  I have learned a great deal about faith through her friendship.

I don’t believe God calls everyone to this type of ministry.  I do wonder with Francis Chan how many of us would be willing to boldly pray that prayer.  Would you?

On another note, isn’t it great that Francis shared this and Dr. Brooks passed it along, and now I am sharing with you?  This is what being part of a body is about.  It is encouraging each other in the faith and walking the journey together.  I am so glad to be on this journey with you.

God Is Able

 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.  -Ephesians 3:20-21

It is easy to get bogged down in the day to day events of life and become discouraged.  There are too many things on the calendar, things aren’t moving as fast as we’d like them to or they’re moving too fast.  We put our heads down and trudge onward trying to make do.  Our faces grow determined and our hearts grow tired.  Our vision grows dim.

Several years ago, I listened to a friend talk about the fact that we serve a God who can make waterfalls go up.  I was inspired by the truth in that statement.  I’ve never seen God make a waterfall go up, but I know He could.  I recognized the implications for that in my life at the time-that God is able.  That little statement renewed my passion to pursue Him for all that was happening.  A couple of weekends ago, God reminded me of that truth.  He asked me to follow Him believing He can change the direction of the waterfalls in my life, trusting that when He doesn’t He is right there with me when I fall over the edge.

This week is spring break for a lot of people.  Whether or not you get to take a whole week, take some time this week to break out of the bog.  Spend some time pondering who God is and what He is able to do.  He is able.

Signs

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

Hebrews 12:1-2

 A couple of weeks ago, I was driving along Highway 6 noting the plethora of signs along the way.  There are all kinds of signs from billboards to neon signs to signs nailed to telephone poles.  Some are very slick, some are old and faded.  Some are in your face and some are more subtle. Whatever kind of sign, the goal is to get your attention and ultimately divert you from the highway or get you to do something you might not have otherwise done.

 This is very much like the road of life, especially the Christian life.  There are an inexhaustible number of things competing for our attention.  Satan tries to use these things to divert us from our journey with Christ.  Sometimes these are billboard size distractions and therefore easily recognizable.  We might glance once, but we move forward and it doesn’t’ phase us again.  Sometimes the distractions are slick and we stumble willingly into them finding ourselves off road before we know what hit us.  Sometimes the distractions are subtle appealing to an area of your life that you may not recognize as vulnerable.  There are even distractions that, in and of themselves, are not all that bad, but the end result is that we detour from life with Christ.

 Christ desires a relationship with each of us in which we are continuing to grow more like Him.  It’s pretty obvious that sin keeps us from growing.  However, the author of Hebrews writes that we are to throw off everything that hinders us AND the sin that entangles us.  When we begin to look at things in our life from this point of view, I think it puts a lot of things in perspective.  Good things can become distractions as well. 

 The good news is that because of God’s grace, whether you have made a short side trip, a long detour or have been cruising along with half your wheels on the road and half off, you can stop and get back on the road.  Wherever you are this week, let’s throw off the things that are hindering us and fix our eyes on Jesus.

Again, God is Able

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.  -Ephesians 3:20-21

This summer I have the privilege of leading the Women’s Ministry group Meet Me at the Well in a study on Bill Hybels’ book Too Busy Not to Pray.  Monday evening, we were discussing chapter 3, God is Able.  In it, Hybels theorizes that one reason we do not pray as we need to is that “Somewhere far beneath our surface layer of faith and trust, we don’t actually believe God has the ability to do anything about [our requests]” I think he’s right.  I think there is often a disconnect between what we intellectually, by faith believe, and what our actions reveal we really believe.

As we were discussing this idea, God brought to mind, the above verse and I saw it in a fresh light.  God is able to do more than we ask.  That is pretty awesome in and of itself.  He is also able to do more than we can imagine.  What can you imagine?  I know some of you out there have incredible imaginations.  God is able to do more than that.  Think about that for a minute and ponder God’s awesomeness.  Have you given up praying for something?  Maybe you need to reconsider in light of what God is able to do.

You know, I just realized that I used this verse earlier this spring.  Maybe some of us need the reminder.  Maybe we need to do what Hybels did.  He spent time studying every passage in the Bible that “emphasizes God’s ability to accomplish anything he desires.”  After that, Hybels writes that “I have branded those words into a block of wood that I keep where I can see it as I kneel to pray each day.  I value the reminder because making requests of God is an exercise in futility if I don’t think he’s actually able to answer.”

Top 10 Moments

More lists have been going around today, but I really liked the suggestion of my friend Jamie-listing your top ten magical moments in your life so far. It’s great exercise. The following are mine in no particular order:

* An unexpected weekend my freshman year of college where I got to spend an evening in prayer with two dear friends.

*Hearing my nephew sing Twinkle, Twinkle little star over the phone for the first time

*Walking in to a cleaned up, decorated and organized apartment

*Receiving an award for the female with the highest GPA in the MACE degree in Seminary

*Watching the nephews dance and sing ‘I like to Move it move it”

*African Sunrises and sunsets/sunset at De Gray Lake

*The first time I watched someone’s eyes light up because they got something when I was teaching my first small group

*Getting a kitten for Christmas

*Watching 5 lion cubs “roar” while their moms lazed in the sun.

*Being less than 5 feet from a Cheetah as she sat on the hood of our jeep and watched her 3 cubs playing

Birthdays

Last Tuesday was my birthday. All in all, it was a good one though not nearly as dramatic as last year, but that’s another story. This year, I was greeted first by my brother and one of my nephews (Daniel). Zachary (the other nephew) was mad at my brother for taking his toy away so he refused to talk to me. Ah kids. Still, it melted my heart when Daniel wished me happy birthday. I know he was coaxed, but there’s something really cool about the voice of a little one telling you happy birthday. It was definitely better than hearing my brother tell me that I was closer to being closer to 40. What’s that about? This combined with my Dad telling me over breakfast that it takes longer to get over pulled muscles as you get over made me think there was a conspiracy. Thankfully, it was only my family that focused on my being older. I guess that’s what family is for. (Note that both nephews sang happy birthday to me later that day after being threatened with not being able to go ride their bikes.)

Moving on…my dad took me to breakfast and while there, I got a phone call from my best friend. Lunch was out with a co-worker and dinner was with my uncle and my dad. Meanwhile, all day long, I received wishes on Facebook. The festivities continued on Friday night with dinner and a movie with friends. This is always good, especially when it involves queso-yum.

For some reason, this year I have reminisced more about previous birthdays. I’ve had some really great ones. One year, in high school, I was “kidnapped” by two single adults in our mission. They came in with bandanas and squirt guns and blindfolded me and took me to dinner. My Senior year, one of those same two singles “hired” this wonderful older couple to tp my room while I was out to dinner with them (this is a long story). This couple supposedly had never done that before. If not, they were naturals for it was a job most excellently done.

My 21st birthday was memorable because my best friend at the time posted posters all around our college campus on my various routes wishing me happy birthday. For my 30th birthday, two of my friends threw me a party and unbeknownst to me had people bring things from the 80’s that I might have might have missed out on growing up in Nigeria. I don’t know who had more fun, me or the guests. Every time I opened something, someone had a story. It was a blast. Last year was memorable because two of my best friends went to my apartment while I was working and cleaned, unpacked and decorated (See the story here). This was one of the most awesome gifts ever.

I have been blessed over the years with some really great celebrations and some really great friends. I’m looking forward to many more to come.

Sick of Sick

I’m sick of being sick. I’ve been to the doctor three times in the last month. My doc keeps telling me to stay away from doctors. Trust me, I’m trying. I stayed home all weekend in the hopes I could kick this latest by today. I didn’t. Doc says I have sinusitis.

The silver lining of my trip to the doc today is that he gave me a prescription for a tetracaine popsicle. This, in my opinion (as one who tends toward sore throats), is one of the best products ever. You stick it as far back as you can in your throat for about 15 seconds and it deadens it. I haven’t slept much the last three nights because it hurts to swallow. This should do the trick.

Organization…or lack thereof

Discovering google reader recently has allowed me to keep up with friend’s blogs more easily. This has been a lot of fun although I have probably spent far too much time online. One such friend is Stephanie at http://stephaniesmommybrain.blogspot.com/. Now, while I have enjoyed reading her blog, it is also somewhat depressing. Stephanie has four children and still manages to be one of the most organized people I know. I can’t even keep my desk at work organized. I have to say, I’m envious of her organization skills. I’m hoping if I keep reading her blog, maybe I’ll learn something.